finger-pointing(blaming)
责怪
A:Don't be worried. Please sit down and take it easy.
A:不要担心，先请坐下来，消消气。
B:How can I feel easy? I'm really pissed.
B：我怎么能轻松得了?我真是气死了。
A:But you should avoid finger-pointing when you haven't got the real facts.
A：但在你还没有弄清真相时，你要避免使用责怪的方式。
B:OK. I'll try my best to calm down first.
B：好吧，我先尽力平静下来吧。