(单词翻译:单击)
Hey there! Welcome to Life Noggin! Whether or not we like to admit it,
大家好！欢迎来到脑洞大开的生命奇想！不管你喜不喜欢承认，
our parents have a big effect on us - and I don't just mean genetically.
我们的父母对我们有很大的影响-我说的不仅仅是基因方面。
How they raise us can influence everything from our future social relationships to how much fruit we eat...yeah.
他们养育我们的方式可影响很多东西，从未来的社交关系到我们吃多少水果...是的。
It can also have a large impact on our brain and development, which is why it's important for parents to be involved in their kid's lives.
它也可对我们的大脑和发育产生很大的影响，这就是为什么父母要参与孩子的生活。
But what happens when they are a little, well, too involved?
但是如果父母们太过干涉子女的生活呢？
A common theme among overprotective parents is to shield their kids from anything that could hurt them physically, emotionally, and even academically.
在过度保护孩子的父母中，一个共同的主题是保护他们的孩子免受任何可能伤害他们身体、情感甚至学业的事情。
The parents that take this to the extreme are often referred to as helicopter parents, and that sounds way cooler than it actually is.
采取这种极端做法的父母通常被称为“直升机父母”，这听起来比实际情况要严酷得多。
But their efforts don't seem to have the desired effect.
但是他们的努力并没有达到想要的效果。
A 2014 study on college students found that those with over-controlling parents had significantly higher levels of depression
2014年一项针对大学生的研究发现，由于缺少自主性，
and less satisfaction with life due to their lack of autonomy.
那些父母控制欲太强的人患抑郁症何生活满意度低的几率明显更高。
Generally, these parents want to help their kids through life.
这些父母通常想要帮助他们的孩子度过一生。
But removing all stressful situations from their children doesn't seem to actually help them at all.
但是从孩子身上消除所有的压力似乎对他们一点帮助都没有。
Several studies have looked at how stress affects brain and social development in rats.
几项研究观察了压力如何影响老鼠的大脑和社会发展。
As opposed to chronic or sustained stress, which stems from things like neglect and violence and is agreed upon to be harmful to children,
这些来自于忽视和暴力的长期或持续的压力等被认为对儿童是有害的，与这些压力相反，
these studies tested how acute or short-term stress from activities like playing and competitions affected the animals.
这些研究测试了玩耍和比赛等活动带来的急性或短期压力对动物的影响。
For example, one study found that rats that weren't allowed to play-fight as juveniles grew up to have social problems like hyper-aggression and anti-social behaviors as adults.
例如，一项研究发现，幼龄时不允许打闹的老鼠成年后会出现高度攻击性和反社会行为等社会问题。
Overall, these animal studies have shown that brief, controlled amounts of stress during childhood
总体上来说，这些研究说明童年时期短暂和受控制的压力水平
can be beneficial for the development of the brain, social skills, intelligence, and even the immune system.
可对大脑、社交技巧、智力、甚至是免疫系统的发育有益。
An authoritarian or strict parenting style doesn't produce the desired effect either.
权威和严格的管教方式也不会产生想要的效果。
Take triangle bob for example, As opposed to becoming well-behaved and avoiding dangers like drinking, drug use,
以三角鲍勃为例，他不是表现良好，避免饮酒、吸毒等危险，
and other RISKY ADULT BEHAVIORS, children of strict parents tend to be more rebellious,
还有其他有危险的成人行为，严格父母的孩子往往更有反叛性，
suffer from low self-esteem and emotional problems like depression, and often become bullies.
他们有较低的自尊和像抑郁这样的情感问题，经常变成霸凌人员。
Despite their popularity, the data shows that corporal punishments like spanking also have a negative impact on children.
除了这些常见的问题，数据还显示，像打屁股这样的肉体惩罚也会对孩子产生消极影响。
Around the world, around 80 percent of parents report using physical punishments like spanking to discipline their children.
据报道，在世界范围内，约有80%的父母使用了像大屁股这样的身体惩罚来处罚孩子。
Which is scary when you look into what effect spanking has on them.
打屁股对孩子们的影响是很吓人的。
A 2016 meta-analysis combining the results of 75 previous studies found that spanking results in more aggression,
2016年的一项结合了之前75项研究的结果的荟萃分析发现，打屁股会导致孩子出现更多的攻击性，
more antisocial behavior, more mental health problems, lower cognitive abilities, lower self-esteem, and more negative relationships with parents.
更多的反社会行为，更多的心理健康问题，更低的认知能力，更低的自尊心，更消极的亲子关系。
The parenting style that has been found to have the best impact on children is called authoritative parenting.
对孩子影响最大的教育方式被称为权威式教育。
It combines discipline and guidance with warmth and support - something I think all of us can benefit from.
它把纪律和指导与温暖和支持结合起来
Thank you for being a loving parent, Animator. I appreciate you. As much as science has told us about different parenting styles,
谢谢你是一个有爱的父亲，动画师。我谢谢你。科学已经告诉我们很多不同的养育方式，
people have lots of different experiences, we wanna hear yours if you're comfortable with sharing in the comment section below!
人们也还是有很多不同的经历，如果你愿意在下面评论区分享的话，我们想听听你的故事！
Big thanks to Experian for sponsoring this video!
非常感谢益百利对本视频的支持！
Experian Boost is trying to do some good in the world and help people boost their credit scores instantly and for free by doing what you're already doing.
Experian Boost正试图在世界上做一些好事，帮助人们通过做你已经在做的事情来立即免费提高他们的信用分数。
Up until now when you pay utilities or your cell phone bill it hasn't gone towards building credit scores, but now it can!
到目前为止，当你支付水电费或手机话费时，还没有建立信用评分，但现在可以了！
Higher credit scores can help you establish credit or get access to preferred credit options.
较高的信用评分可以帮助你建立信用或获得优先信用选项。
It used to take months to improve your credit scores but now with Boost, you can improve your scores instantly.
过去需要几个月来提高你的信用分数，但现在有了Boost，你可以立即提高你的分数。
Most people who boost see an increase greater than 10 points and people all across America have already raised their credit scores with Experian Boost.
大多数人的信用评分会增加10分以上，全美各地的人都已经通过Experian boost提高了他们的信用评分。
So, we invite you to take part in the Boost America movement today and help support the show.
所以，我们邀请你参加今天的“振兴美国”运动，帮助支持这个节目。
Experian Boost can potentially help you establish or increase your access to credit.
Experian Boost可以潜在地帮助你建立和增加你的信贷渠道。
It's safe, secure, and 100% free, no credit card required. Plus you can boost your FICO score instantly!
它是安全的，完全免费，不需要信用卡。你可以立即增加你的信用分数！
Boost is only available at Experian dot com slash LIFENOGGIN or click the first link in the description. Thanks guys!
Boost只能在experian.com/lifenoggin 或单击描述中的第一个链接处获得。谢谢你们了!
As always, my name is Blocko, this has been Life Noggin, don't forget to keep on thinking!
我是宝高，这里是脑洞大开的生命奇想！不要忘记思考！
