时尚双语:赢取芳心七步曲
日期:2009-03-02 17:15

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7 Steps To Make Her Heart Belongs To You

For the Guys!!!!
Gals pls pass to your guy frenz!!

All of you guys out there might be wondering exactly what you need to do to win a girl's heart? This may seem like a difficult task, but it doesn't have to be. If you are one of the many men who want to learn how to win a girl's heart, you should read our steps and tips for ways to win a girl over. Here are the Top 7 steps what every guy should do to win a girl's heart!
Steps

1. Always Be Confidence
Women absolutely love guys who are comfortable with themselves. To them, a confident man demonstrates a level of high status where he doesn't worry about the outcome of any conversation. A confident guy enjoys time spent with women, instead of focusing on everything that could go wrong.

2. Always be Flirting
The best kind of flirtation with a woman is to tease her, to bust her balls, to let her know that she is not on a pedestal. Make fun of her. Be indifferent to her interest.

3. Send mixed signals.
Yeah, it's a bit childish but necessary. One day call her and compliment her, then don't call or speak to her for two days. She'll wonder why you haven't called, which means you'll be on her mind. Never go so far as to compliment her one day and make fun of her the next. Subtlety is key.

4. Make her Laugh.
Women love to laugh! So, use a good sense of humor is one of the best tactics a man can have in attracting a girl. It will impress them and she may think that you are an interesting guy.

5. Always Have Fun
If you're not having fun when you go out, then you've killed any chance of attracting women. Instead, the more you can do to relax and enjoy yourself, the more you'll be able to project an aura of positive energy and confidence. When you learn to have fun, you'll have incredible success with women.

6. Be A Romantic Guy.
If you want to steal her heart and make it yours, then you should be a romantic guy. Instead of just looking at the surface of a woman, you should looks within her to find the beautiful part and use your imagination for making poetic comments, interesting stories, and emotional interpretation in everything.

7. Respect yourself and keep your own interests
When a guy meets a woman he likes, he often wants to spend as much time as possible with her. This is natural, but there is a big danger here as well. If you put your life aside for a woman, you will become less interesting to her. As soon as you start acting like she's going to be around forever, she'll start feeling less and less ATTRACTION for you

Tips

Pay Attention to your appearance.
Be a gentleman without hanging all over her.
Never forget to always act yourself and never try to be someone you aren't.
Never Become A Boring Person.
Do not cheat on her. You may never win her heart back.
Don't tell her everything about yourself because women like a man with a bit of mystery to him and vice-versa
Finally if you follow the top 7 steps on how to win a girl's heart, then I am sure her heart will belong to you before you know it. But remember the most importantly is that you need to demonstrate that you are a "prize" worth fighting for. You need to turn the woman's mindset around and have her thinking that she needs to pursue you. You have to convince her that you are one that she definitely doesn't want to let get away.

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赢取芳心七步曲
献给男孩子们!!!

姑娘们,请转给你的男生朋友们看!!

你们那里的所有男孩子们可能都想知道到底需要怎么做才能赢得女孩的芳心?这看上去似乎很难,但未必是这样的。很多男人都想学会如何去获得女孩的芳心,如果你也是其一,那么你就应该看一看我们提供的步骤和小诀窍来找到把妹的方法。这里有每个男孩在泡妞时都应当去做的七个顶级步骤!

步骤

1. 始终保持自信


女人绝对喜欢那些轻松地对待自我的男孩子。对她们来说,一个自信的男人会表现出一种高姿态,因为他不会担心任何对话的结果。一个自信的男孩享受着与女人共度的时光,而不是把心思放在可能会做错的每样事情上。

2. 不断地调情

对女人的最佳调情方法就是逗弄她,开她的玩笑,以让她知道她不是被宠坏的公主。取笑她吧。对她表现出的兴趣表示冷漠。

3. 发出模棱两可的信号

是,这有点孩子气,但却必要。某天打电话给她,奉承她。然后两天内不给她打电话,也不和她说话。她就会想你为什么还没打电话给她——这就意味着你将呆在她脑子里了。不要过分到今天奉承她而明天又去取笑她。高深莫测才是关键。

4. 逗她笑

女人爱笑!因此,男人吸引女孩的法宝之一是拥有一份好的幽默感,这会给她们留下深刻印象,她可能会认为你是个有趣的家伙。


5. 始终保持娱乐精神

如果你出去玩的时候不能表现出娱乐精神,那么你就会毁掉一切吸引女人的机会。相反地,你越是能放松和享受自我,你就越能散发出一种包含着积极能量和自信的气息。当你学着作乐时,在女人身上你就会获得难以置信的成功。

6. 做个浪漫的人

如果你想把她的心偷走,让它属于你,那么就应该成为一个浪漫的人。不要只是停留在注视着女人的表面上,而应当看透她,去寻找那美丽的部分,动用你的想象来发表一下带有诗意的看法、说一些有趣的故事,以及对各种事情作感性诠释。

7. 尊重自我并保持你自己的兴趣

当一个男孩遇到他所钟爱的女人时,他往往想要尽可能地守在她左右。这很自然,但也同样存在危险。如果为了某个女人而把你的生活搁在一边,她对你的兴趣就会变得越来越淡。一旦你开始流露出她将会永远呆在你身边的念头,她就会开始觉得你越来越没有吸引力了。

小诀窍

注重一下你的外表。
具有绅士风度,但不要过分呵护她。
永远也不要忘记始终表现出真我,永远也不要试着做其他人。
永远也不要做一个乏味无趣的人。
不要欺骗她,否则你可能永远也无法赢回她的芳心了。
不要把有关自己的一切事情都告诉她,因为女人喜欢具有一点神秘感的男人,反之亦然。
最后,如果你采用了上述七个顶级步骤来获取女孩芳心,那么我保证她的芳心一定会不知不觉地属于你。但请记住最重要的一点,那就是:你需要显示出你是一个值得去努力赢取的“奖品”。你需要转变女人的心态,要让她觉得她需要去追求你。你必须要使她相信你是她绝对不能错过的那个人。

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重点单词
  • impressn. 印象,特徵,印记 v. 使 ... 有印象,影响,
  • complimentn. 称赞,恭维,(复数)致意 vt. 称赞,恭维
  • pedestaln. 基架,底座,受人尊敬的地位 vt. 加座,搁在台上
  • romanticadj. 浪漫的 n. 浪漫的人
  • statusn. 地位,身份,情形,状况
  • mysteryn. 神秘,秘密,奥秘,神秘的人或事物
  • convincevt. 使确信,使信服,说服
  • confidenceadj. 骗得信任的 n. 信任,信心,把握
  • conversationn. 会话,谈话
  • pursuev. 追捕,追求,继续从事