自信 VS 扭扭捏捏
The truth is women are always attracted to guys with unique and interesting personalities. In order to be successful with women, you have to know the right kind of characteristics to display to women. In the next few minutes, you’ll learn the most important personality traits to display that will draw women to you. Take a look and see if you’re doing something wrong!
Whenever you’re talking to women, you have to show absolute confidence in yourself. No matter what happens or comes up, you should act like it doesn’t faze you. A confident guy can roll with the punches and handle himself in all situations.
Don’t: Being Clingy And Insecure. 粘乎乎，不自信
By "clingy," I don’t mean physically touchy-feely–although women can be turned off by
such behavior. But being psychologically clingy is even worse. You’re psychologically clingy when you never leave her side when you’re walking around the department store, or when you keep asking if she likes you or if you’re her type. This kind of insecurity make women think you’re a pest.
运动 VS 木讷
Do: Desirable “花花公子”
Women like guys who are pursued by other women. To trigger this reaction, you should flirt and meet with multiple women, instead of trying to attract a single one.
So next time you’re in public, try meeting and flirting with different women. Eventually you’ll find that there will be a few women who are competing for your attention.
Don’t: Using Insecure Body Language. 使用不自信的身体语言
Have you ever acted polite and formal with a woman on the first date? You may have faked a few smiles and laughed at all her jokes, trying to maker her like you. It may be "nice," but women also think it’s "wussy." She may not see it, but trust me when I say that she sees right through you.
焦点型 VS 被动型
Do: Center of attention 焦点型
When you display this trait, you’ll become the guy who captivates the interest of every person you meet. In order to display this trait, you have to establish yourself as an authority with interesting things to say.
When you become the focal point of a room, you’ll be able to easily draw beautiful women to you.
Don’t: Not Leading, Or–Worse–Trying To Get Her To Lead. 不去主导，甚或更糟——让她去主导
When you plan to take her out to dinner, but keep asking her whether the time and place is okay for her, then you’re giving her the impression that you don’t know how to handle a relationship.
幽默 VS 乏味
Do: Fun to be around “开心果”
An attractive guy is somebody who can bring fun and excitement to a conversation. If you can make women enjoy themselves when they’re around you, then it’ll be easy to attract them.
So instead of talking about serious stuff like work, school or your family, try to behave in a flirtatious manner and talk about fun things.
Don’t: Being Boring. 无聊乏味
This is probably the easiest mistake to make. Women love men who can make them laugh and feel good, but hate men who are all flowers, gifts, and dinners.
强势 VS 娇柔
Do: Strength 强势
Having a strong personality is one of the best ways attract women.
You can show this personality by always looking a woman in the eye and maintaining length eye contact. In addition, you should be a person who sets high standards and lives by them.
Don’t: Not Understanding That She’s A Woman And You’re A Man. 不明白她是女人而你是男人
Women are coy and play hard to get. They enjoy the thrill of "catch me if you can." Men, on the other hand, are competitive and dominant. They play for the win. The problem is that you may not act like a man when you’re with her, and women have a word for this: "girly."
欲擒故纵 VS 死心塌地
Do: Be challenging 欲擒故纵
One mistake other guys make is to be too aggressive with women.
Instead of doing this, you should try make her work for your attraction. For instance, you should do a few things leaves her wondering if you like her. The more she has to work for your affections, the more she’ll be into you.
Don’t: Sacrificing your status to make her happy. 为讨红颜一笑，宁愿牺牲自己的地位
Some men think that if they do everything women want, women would like them more. Big mistake–women hate this kind of behavior. They don’t want men who are weak, tentative, and doesn’t seem to have his act straight.