A grieving friend or family member may experience shock and sadness of loss when someone dies. Express your sympathy at a funeral by offering them much needed support.
当失去亲人时，悲伤的朋友或家庭成员可能会受到震撼并经受痛苦，在葬礼上通过给予帮助来表达你的同情。

Step 1: Offer your time
Offer your personal time to help with needs such as arranging transportation, cleaning a home, or helping watch children.
第一步:花些时间
花些你个人的时间来帮助他们，比如安排车辆，打扫房屋或是帮忙照看孩子。

Step 2: Cook
Bring, buy, or prepare food. Often, after a death, time is taken up by grieving and funeral arrangements, and mourners won’t have time to cook for themselves. Sometimes a meal can say what words cannot.
第二步:做饭
带来些食物，买些或是准备些食物。在亲人逝去后，通常大部分时间人们都用来悼念逝者和安排葬礼，悼念者没有时间来做饭。有时候一顿饭可以表达言辞所不能表达的（同情）。

Step 3: Send flowers
Send flowers with a personalized message or donate to their recommended charity.
第撒播步:送些花
送些花，花里要带上写有署名的卡片或是捐些钱钱给他们推荐的慈善组织。

Step 4: Give them a hug
Offer a hug, or two.
第四步:给他们一个拥抱
给他们一个或两个拥抱。

Step 5: Listen
Listen to them and allow them to express their feelings.
第五步:倾听
倾听他们的诉说并让他们说出自己的感觉。

Tip：Listen without offering any advice.
小贴士：倾听是不要提意见。

Step 6: Call
Call and express your sympathy or send a card and express it in writing.
第六步:打电话
打电话来表达同情或是送一个卡片，写些东西来表达同情。

Step 7: Be present
Be in their presence. Even if you do not talk, being physically present can be helpful.
第七步:要在现场
要在现场。即使你不说话，仅在现场对他们也会有帮助。