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【Transcript】

Don’t let any more opportunities to meet that sexy stranger slip away!

You Will Need
Courage
Confidence
Some conversation starters

Step 1: Introduce yourself
Approach the person and introduce yourself. Don’t bother with cheesy pickup lines—studies show a simple “Hi” works best.

If the other person doesn’t immediately offer his or her name, chances are the interest level is low.

Step 2: Use name immediately
After you get the person’s name, use it almost immediately. For example, “So, Jen, are you a coffee addict, too?” People love the sound of their own name.

Try to slip in a little flattery. Compliment her name, an article of his clothing—just don’t go overboard.

Step 3: Ask questions
Once a conversation is underway, ask questions so you can do more listening than talking. When allowed to dominate a conversation, a person is more likely to rate the listener as highly interesting.

Try to make the other person laugh. A good sense of humor is always high on the list of traits that singles seek.

Step 4: Don't linger
Don’t linger. After a few minutes, say that you have to rejoin your friends, get back to work, whatever. End the flirting before you run out of things to say.

Step 5: Say you'd love to see them again
Before walking away, tell the person you’ve enjoyed chatting and would love to see them again. Hopefully they’ll offer their number.

If you have business cards, pull one out and suggest that you trade.

Step 6: Ask for phone number
If the other person doesn’t get the hint, ask straight-up for their phone number. Now go think of what to say when you call!

Research shows that men decide within the first 15 minutes of a date if they want to see the person again, while women take up to an hour.

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【Translation】

看到自己想认识的人，千万不要轻易错过了

你需要有：
勇气
自信
一些谈话技巧

首先 自我介绍
走进对方，介绍自己。打招呼的语言不要太罗嗦，研究显示“hi”是收效最好的。如果对方听到你的自我介绍之后，没有多大的反应，说明对方的兴趣不是很高。

接下来 直呼对方的姓名
知道对方的姓名之后，直接称呼对方姓名，这样可以减少一点距离感。

第三 勤问问题
谈话开始之后，你要多问一些问题，这样可以给对方更多的说话机会。尽力逗对方笑。一定的幽默感会大大提高你的印象分。

第四 不要逗留太久
逗留久了容易找不到话题，所以得提前说自己有事，要回去工作，或者回去找朋友等等。

第五 告诉对方愿意下次见面
在离开之前，让对方知道和对方聊天很开心，希望能够再见面。如果有名片，可以留一张给对方。

第六 如果对方不了解你的意思，可以直接询问对方的电话号码。接下来就是想想给对方打电话的时候应该怎么说了。