怎样得体,不失面子地承认自己的错误?(视频附文本)
日期:2010-07-01 11:57

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【听力文本】

No one is right all of the time. Get over your pride and admit you’re wrong.

You Will Need
Acknowledgement
Understanding
Honesty
Apology
Eye contact

Step 1: Relax(准备承认错误的时候,保持冷静)
Relax and stay calm when you acknowledge that you are wrong.

Step 2: Avoid excuses(不要给自己找理由)
When you apologize, avoid making excuses. A simple “I’m sorry” is appreciated more than an “I’m sorry, but I was really busy.”

Maintain eye contact while you’re apologize.

Step 3: Admit your mistake(真诚地承认自己的错误)
Be honest and admit your mistake. State what you’re apologizing for.

Step 4: Understand(要理解,每个人都会犯错)
Try not to wallow in feelings of guilt. Understand that everyone makes mistakes. No one is right all of the time.

Step 5: Learn(从自己的错误中反省)
Learn from your mistakes. You’re a better person for it.

President Ronald Reagan signed a bill in 1988 apologizing for the internment of Japanese Americans in concentration camps in the United States during World War II.

重点词汇

【重点词汇】

1.acknowledgement n. 承认,确认,感谢

如:Her theory was quoted without an acknowledgement.
她的理论被人引用而未向她致谢。

We are sending you some money in acknowledgement of your valuable help.
我们送些酬劳,对您的大力协助聊表谢意。

2.Eye contact 眼神交流

如:Eye contact is important when you are talking with others.
和别人说话的时候,眼神交流很重要。

3.wallow in 沉迷,沉溺

如:He seemed to be wallowing in luxury.
他似乎沉溺于豪华的享乐中。

The children enjoyed watching the hippopotamus wallowing in the mud.
孩子们喜欢看河马在泥中打滚。

4.all of the time 随时

句子解析

【句子解析】

1. A simple “I’m sorry” is appreciated more than an “I’m sorry, but I was really busy.”
一句简单的“对不起”,比“对不起,但是我真的很忙”要来的有效果。

这个句子是一个简单的比较结构的句子,more than引导的,

例如:She wishes to be treated as nothing more than a common girl.
她希望被对待得只不过像一般的女孩子。

句子中的“I'm sorry”和“I'm sorry, but ...”这两个句子作同位语,对省略了的a simple (sentence)和 an(a) sentence做进一步的解释。

2.You’re a better person for it.
这么做会让你更加成熟。

for这个词在这里意思是“因为,由于”的意思,而不是平时所见到的“为了”的意思,

例如:You must be responsible for what you have done.
你要为自己所做的一切负责。

3.Try not to wallow in feelings of guilt.
不要让自己沉浸在愧疚的深渊里。

try not to do sth意思就是“试图不要做某事”,例如:Try not to be late next time.下次别再迟到了。

wallow in意思就是“陷入,沉溺”。

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重点单词
  • guiltn. 罪行,内疚
  • apologyn. 道歉;勉强的替代物
  • acknowledgevt. 承认,公认,告知收到,表示感谢,注意到
  • luxuryn. 奢侈,豪华,奢侈品
  • honestyn. 诚实,正直
  • priden. 自豪,骄傲,引以自豪的东西,自尊心 vt. 以 .
  • avoidvt. 避免,逃避
  • concentrationn. 集中,专心,浓度
  • understandvt. 理解,懂,听说,获悉,将 ... 理解为,认为
  • valuableadj. 贵重的,有价值的 n. (pl.)贵重物品