PBS高端访谈:看看都有什么约会小建议
日期:2019-02-18 17:52

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JUDY WOODRUFF: It's Valentine's Day. And here at the NewsHour we want to mark the occasion by hearing from Matthew Hussey. He's a dating coach who tonight offers us his Brief But Spectacular take on modern love.

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MATTHEW HUSSEY, Dating Coach: I am known predominantly for dealing with people's relationships.

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QUESTION: Let's do a little glossary of sorts for the audience. Ghosting.

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MATTHEW HUSSEY: So, ghosting is the term given to someone just falling off of the radar completely. They were talking to you, and now they just vanished. Bread-crumbing is different to the ghost. The ghost just vanishes. The bread-crumber gives you a little bit, and then moves away. So the bread-crumber's like the person who says, hey, how's your week going? And they haven't texted you for three weeks. And then, a month later, they come back and they go, thinking of you. In the dating environment today, sometimes, being higher maintenance is actually the thing that will work better for you. It's this race to the bottom, where everyone thinks that, oh, it's just fast-food dating, Tinder and Bumble and Match and all of these things that I just have to accept whatever treatment I'm given. And if someone wants to meet with me, and it's five minutes from now, I should do it, because, if I don't do it, somebody else will, and this guy seems like a great guy. The only way to stand out in dating today is to actually be more demanding than the next person. When a ship is sinking, and you see everyone running that way, follow the person who's walking that way. For anyone who's watching something like this and says, why aren't we talking politics, science, culture, this is all of those things. If you are in a toxic relationship, that poisons you everywhere else in your life. You don't think we'd have better politicians if they were happy in their relationships? If things were good back home, and they were happy, and they felt connected, people would be better everywhere in their lives. You master relationships, you master your relationship with the world. I believe that right now is actually the greatest time in history to date. People en masse have lost the ability to go out there and meet people in real life. This is the best opportunity that you could ever have, if you are still a human being that knows how to talk to another human being, because you're not competing with most of the world. One of the greatest ways to stand out in dating right now today is to be someone who could still pick up the phone on an evening and say, hi, how you doing? I'm Matthew Hussey, and this is my Brief But Spectacular take on love and relationships today.

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JUDY WOODRUFF: And that's all you need to know.

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重点解析

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1.in real life 现实

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In real life, nobody was all bad, nor, conversely, all good.
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2.compete with 竞争

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We ask for a level playing field when we compete with foreign companies.
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3.pick up 捡起

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He picked his cap up from the floor and stuck it back on his head.
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4.stand out 突出

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He played the violin, and he stood out from all the other musicians.
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5.in a relationship 恋情

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I am stuck in a relationship which I don't enjoy.
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参考译文

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朱迪·伍德拉夫:情人节到了35CwJblVrPMZ-]。为了应景,今天的《新闻一小时》请来了马修·哈斯_MJ4&T!H)bY_9h。作为约会教练的他,今晚将在《简短而精彩》中分享自己对现代爱情的看法Jja2QTd]uE

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马修·哈斯,约会教练:大家都知道我的职业是处理恋人之间的关系;jB(UuAkym-f%#r

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问:那我们来为公众扫盲一下术语表吧,先来一个——“玩消失”WA!@.1_1RLeI|T6+

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马修·哈斯:“玩消失”这个恋爱术语指的是雷达也拿他/她束手无策的人H@O_j)qG#GrN([qoS9nT。上一秒还在跟你聊天,下一秒就人间蒸发了oqLD(Hc-B6。“玩暧昧”与“玩消失”还不一样kUvDJW1sir|7imv。“玩消失”只是人不见踪影而已uSJu;)|AYENT=TcgtHU。而“玩暧昧”则是给人若即若离的感觉kUmC3iJkE-b)NVjKLf2q。举个例子,“玩暧昧”的那种人可能会问你:嘿,你这周过的咋样啊?然后接下来的3周就不会给你发信息P1Poc&SUGL-g*xj7|。然后,1个月后,他们又会出现,说什么想死你了K]PzErT5_)7iJVj。在当今的恋爱大环境下,有时候,严以律已是更适合大家的做法1v2S7Hk2Y9y;。现在的大环境是逐底竞争,即所有人都会这样想:不过是快餐式约会而已嘛,那无论是Tinder、Bumble还是Match等等,我都会接受,来者不拒vBZm8f~y(^q。然后,如果有人想跟我约会,而现在只有5分钟了,那我也要赶去,因为如果我不去,还会有别人去,而这个人看起来是个不错的对象_JnN@COeDmk2Gl~PUX。如今,在约会中脱颖而出的唯一方法就是比下一个人要求更高6fIrmX9UL+2p^LMzt5。船在要沉没的时候,如果你看到所有人都往一个方向跑,那么你就应该跟着那个人一起跑IIq@J*5pCZ。有些看到这里的朋友可能会这样想:为什么我们不聊聊政治、科学和文化等等这些话题呢?如果您正处在一段彼此折磨的恋情中的话,这样做也会对您生活的其他方面造成负面影响l%i#cFHkg0。大家难道不觉得如果政治家恋情甜蜜的话,在政坛也会表现得更好吗?如果家和,那么他们就会心情愉悦,就会感到自己与世界产生了联系,那么他们在生活的其他方面也会表现得更好iy.#2zd7CVO。如果能掌控自己与他人的关系,就能掌控自己与世界的关系DeQID9nHu9~eklVFC%。我认为,现在实际上是目前为止的黄金时期UjTDk9QqLr=u^02uM。很多人都失去了走出去,在现实生活中见更多人的能力RaE~[T1bvFN。这是大家最好的机会,如果您还是一个知道如何与他人说话的人,那是因为您还没有跟世界上的其他人去比较fnz(!U;x2IZ|。如今,在约会中脱颖而出的一个最佳方法就是晚上接起电话的时候还能说出:“嗨,你好吗?”这样的话的人K6--S6M@KsSjt%O)y%5W。马修·哈斯,这是我本期带来的与爱情和恋人关系有关的《简短而精彩》+D-[]=yQ_sh;

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朱迪·伍德拉夫:您的介绍十分详尽,感谢您bQsYy_88bA_~p

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重点单词
  • havenn. 港口,避难所,安息所 v. 安置 ... 于港中,
  • coachn. 大巴,教练;(火车)客车车厢,四轮马车,经济舱 v
  • glossaryn. 字典,辞典 [计算机] 词汇表
  • demandingadj. 要求多的,吃力的
  • environmentn. 环境,外界
  • maintenancen. 维护,保持,维修,生活费用 n. 供给,抚养; 主
  • violinn. 小提琴
  • tindern. 火绒,火种
  • minutesn. 会议记录,(复数)分钟
  • competevi. 竞争,对抗,比赛