Now, the VOA Learning English program, "Words and Their Stories."
On the third Sunday in June, Americans take time to recognize and thank a special person in the family – fathers! Father's Day celebrates the importance of fathers, young and old, and the men thought of as father figures.
"Like father, like son" is probably the most common father expression. It means a boy is very much like his father, and sons often do what their fathers did before them. This can be a good thing or a bad thing.
Harry Chapin's song, "Cat's in the Cradle," was popular in the 1970s. He sings about a father who did not spend time with his son. His son grew up to be a man who did not have time for his aging father. Like father, like son.
"...And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me, he'd grown up just like me. My boy was just like me."
The words "the child is father of the man" come from the William Wordsworth poem "My Heart Leaps Up." It means people's personalities form when they are children. They will most likely have the same qualities as an adult that they had as a child.
Used in everyday speech, one could say, "In his case, the child was father of the man; he loved nature as a child and now works as a botanist."
Let's say you want to tell a child a story about something that happened long before they were born. You could say it happened when they "were just a twinkle in their father's eyes." This expression has a humorous and dreamy feel. Here, the word "twinkle" suggests the interest your father had in your mother.
When a much older man is interested in a much younger woman and supports her with his money, he is called her "sugar daddy." The money part is very important – that's the sugar.
Sometimes fathers are not a good influence or active in the lives of their children. In that case, a person may look for a father figure, a man who is not actually the person's father but who acts like one.
The relationship between a man and his son can be complex.
There is a time when the son wants to grow into his own man – something described often in literature. Author Tom Wolfe wrote about a father and son relationship in his 1987 book, "The Bonfire of the Vanities."
"Sherman made the terrible discovery that men make about their fathers sooner or later... that the man before him was not an aging father but a boy, a boy much like himself, a boy who grew up and had a child of his own and, as best he could, out of a sense of duty and, perhaps love, adopted a role called Being a Father."
Rarely are father and son relationships as complex as they are in the film series "Star Wars." Luke Skywalker, the hero, fights against the evil Darth Vader. Then, Vader gives Luke the shock of his life.
The words "I am your father" are now part of American pop culture. And it's more fun if you say it like Darth Vader.
The relationship between a father and daughter is often simpler. The expression "daddy's little girl" is understood to mean that, in a father's eyes, his daughter can do no wrong.
There is usually not a dry eye at any wedding during the traditional father-and-daughter dance, especially if they are dancing to a song like Michael Buble's "Daddy's Little Girl."
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1.botanist n. 植物学家
A botanist can differentiate varieties of plants.
2.twinkle vi. 闪烁；发亮 vt. 使闪耀；闪耀 n. 闪烁
A kindly twinkle came into her eyes.
3.bonfire n. 篝火；营火
The bonfire blazed away for hours.
4.vanities n. 虚荣心；浮华（vanity的复数）
Her small vanities and selfishness were growing nicely.
1."...And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me, he'd grown up just like me. My boy was just like me."
occur to 想到；想起
It did not occur to me to check my insurance policy.
Didn't it occur to you to close the window?
2.There is usually not a dry eye at any wedding during the traditional father-and-daughter dance, especially if they are dancing to a song like Michael Buble's "Daddy's Little Girl."
dance to 随着……起舞；听命于；跟着…行动:
She has to dance to a different tune.
We can't dance to his baton.
哈里·查宾的歌曲Cat's in the Cradle在20世纪70年代很流行，他唱道一位父亲没有时间来陪儿子，他的儿子长大后没时间陪年老的父亲，有其父，必有其子。
假如你要给孩子讲他出生之前的事情，你可以说事情发生时，他只是“父亲眼里的一道闪光”。这种表达很幽默，且有梦幻意味 。这里，“闪光”意味着父亲对母亲的关注 。
在任何婚礼上传统的父女共舞环节中没有不哭的，尤其是伴着迈克尔·布雷的歌曲《Daddy's Little Girl》跳舞时。