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Read every book I could find. Talked to any person who I thought knew about it. Used the strength and then applied it to what had been a weakness of mine.
阅读任何我能找到的书、和我认为了解这方面的人聊天，利用这个力量并将其应用于我的弱点。
Or relationships. Let's say we are going through a difficulty in relationship. And one of my top strengths is for example, authenticity. And then how can I use my authenticity in my interactions with my partner- and that will lead to higher levels of intimacy and improve the relationship in the long run, which is exactly what I did. One of my top strengths- and applied it to cultivating more intimacy.
人际关系也一样，比如说我们的人际关系正面临一定的困难，而我的力量之一，比方说是真诚可靠。那我如何将我的可靠用于我和我伙伴之间的关系——最终达到更高层次的亲密，长远来看，改善我们间的关系，我也正是这样做的，将我的力量应用于产生更加亲密的关系。

Think of your own example. Again, this will not be a response paper, but I highly recommend and urge you to apply it.
想想你们自己的例子，这不是作业，但我十分推荐你们试试。
Let's put some of these ideas together. Let's look at the decisions that some of you are making right now or will be making in the future, whether it's next year or three years from now, or 20 or 40 years from now.
让我们来汇总一下这些概念，让我们看看你们现在或者将来会做的决定，无论是明年、或是三年之后、或者20年 40年以后
How do you make decisions and how do you- what may be a helpful framework for identifying a self-concordant journey as well as outcome?
你如何去做决定——什么是制定一个自我和谐的奋斗过程以及目标的有效框架呢？

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我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。