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I ended last time by sharing some biographical details about my life.
在上节课结束之前我跟大家分享了我生平的一些事
Some people asked me after, "are they really true?" So yes, they are absolutely true.
后来有人问我"是真的吗?"没错，是千真万确的
And I told the incident from two different perspectives — first as a fault finder, and then as a merit finder.
这个故事我是从两个不同的角度来讲的——第一个是消极者的，第二个是积极者的
Now the important thing to keep in mind when we think about the merit finder is that
大家要记住的很重要的一点是我们所说的积极者

it's not that the merit finder does not experience pain or disappointment, or anger, or humility, or fear, or disappointment.
并非不会感到痛苦或失望，愤怒或羞辱，恐惧或失望
You know, it's very disappointing to say the least, not to be able to pursue one's goal, if the goal happens to be a professional career in squash.
至少无法追求自己的目标是一件很让人失望的事，如果这个目标碰巧是关于职业生涯的
It is very humiliating to be the only person who fails of a program
或者是如果自己是唯一一个没有拿到学位的人
and to have to walk around for a whole year in William James while feeling like you have a horn coming out of head.
而不得不在威廉·詹姆斯大楼再呆一年就像脑袋长了一个角那么羞愧
It's not fun. It's painful.
这种事没有快乐可言，非常痛苦

课程简介和演讲视频

课程简介：

我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。