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That focuses on the average? What's the average relationship in human history?

并求平均值吗?人类史上的普通恋爱关系是指什么?

The average relationship in human history is one in which the woman is subjugated.

人类史上的普通恋爱关系其一是女人是被压制的一方

That's the average relationship in human history. Now what if we just study that?

这就是人类史上的普通恋爱关系如果我们只研究这种恋爱关系呢?

Would that be helpful? No, it was when people like John Stuart Mill,

是否有帮助?不 John Stuart Mill这样的人

Who studied his relationships which was at the time extraordinary,

研究了他自身的恋爱关系这在当时是极不寻常的

Realized the potential of what all relationships can be that he wrote his book on subjugation of women,

研究过后他发现恋爱关系能改变他这本书是以女性主导地位为题的

One of the most important books of the 19th century that has led to the feminist movement

这本书是19世纪最重要的书之一是女权运动和平等运动的

And to the equality movement. What if he only studies the average?

导火线如果他只研究普通的恋爱关系呢?

Would that help relationships? Not at all.

那样对人际关系有帮助吗?完全没有

How about teaching? What do you want to do in order to learn about teaching

那教学呢?要了解如何教学 你想怎样做?

Go and study the average teachers or go and study Marva Collins and then apply what Marva Collins does to all teachers?

研究平均水平的教师还是研究Marva Collins然后将Marva Collins的经验应用到所有老师身上?

Everyone benefits when we focus on the tip of stamen this is why Maslow said human nature

当着眼于研究最优秀的人体时 每个人都得益这就是为什么Maslow说人性

And human potential has been sold short, when we only study the average.

和人的潜能会被削弱如果我们只研究平均水平的话

It's also about studying our personal best, not just other people's best,

同样涉及到研究我们个人的最大长处而不仅是研究其他人的最大长处

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我们来到这个世上，到底追求什么才是最重要的？

他坚定地认为：幸福感是衡量人生的唯一标准，是所有目标的最终目标。塔尔博士在哈佛学生中享有很高的声誉，受到学生们的爱戴与敬仰，被誉为"最受欢迎讲师"和"人生导师"。